Is the Perfect Partner Just a Fairy Tale?

Do you have a realistic idea of what you’re looking for in a partner, or is a fairy tale running the show? How often do you stop to consider exactly what you want and why? How conscious are you when it comes to looking for that “special someone”? Are you aware of the power of setting goals? Any book or seminar on goal setting will tell you the importance of clear, concise goals. When you’re clear about what you want, the universal forces (or your unconscious) will assist you in manifesting exactly what you want, at just the right time.

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If you want a partner, is that for marriage, or just a long-term, committed dating situation? It’s important to get clear about this so you can move on to the next step. You may be surprised at your answer if you allow yourself to be truthful. Now, with that in mind, what qualities and traits do you want this person to have? Let your list grow freely and don’t judge your answers. Dream big, be silly, write everything down. If you’re looking for marriage, your list will probably be longer than if you’re looking for someone to hang out with. When you can’t think of any more, keep writing. Fill the page. I have fifty-nine items on my list. One of them is well-manicured hands and feet. Silly? Maybe, but it’s important to me. Just keep writing.

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I agree, the good thing about these times is that the internet can help a lot, not only through text messages but by video chats and microphone chats,emails, it can spice up the relationship, by writing love letters by emails, or writing about your fantasies by emails, or by chat, and you can talk everyday and show each other funny pictures you find on the web or videos, or show him your new underwear or something sexy, and flirt by video and by text messages, or by microphone if you feel too shy to talk with video too, this will keep him also interested and will want to see you more, another thing is that many times men wants to makes us happy in the relationship, if you are always grumpy , bad tempered, criticising everything and never smiling at anything he does or says to try to make you happy he can also feel like he is not good enough for you, like nothing that he does is enough, you have to be careful about that, even if i feel sometimes really sad about something that happened to me at work, or in class, or that i remembered something about my childhood or whatever, if my boyfriend asks me “are you happy with me?” i say to him “yes , im happy with YOU”, because no matter what happens outside he is there for me and he loves me, and i tell him that, i let him know he is good enough and that he is making me happy with his love, but also because he is really good to me (if you dont have a good boyfriend and he’s just a lot of drama and fightings and makes you feel bad about yourself all the time, then its different) but if you have a good boyfriend or husband, let him know that he is one of a kind and very special to you.

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Finding a life partner is not something we should do haphazardly, it’s too important. Most relationships don’t seem to last very long. We find ourselves attracted to someone, begin to get to know them, get physically involved, then find out we don’t want to be with that person. At that point a lot has been invested, emotionally, physically, and time wise, and it’s painful for one or both to part ways. One way to avoid some of that heartache is to be very clear about what you’re looking for. Then don’t let your heart and hormones take over for your brain.

So, here’s a recipe for manifesting your perfect partner.

First, write down the things that you’re generally attracted to–when you first see someone as well as when you first talk. Be honest here. If you like cowboy boots, write it down. Set this list aside to look at when you’re all done. The next step is to sit quietly, with no possibility of interruptions, and close your eyes. Calm your mind then ask yourself, “What do I want?” This isn’t about what traits or qualities you’re looking for yet. It’s about what exactly do you want? Do you really want a partner? Or just someone to hang out with.