I agree, the good thing about these times is that the internet can help a lot, not only through text messages but by video chats and microphone chats,emails, it can spice up the relationship, by writing love letters by emails, or writing about your fantasies by emails, or by chat, and you can talk everyday and show each other funny pictures you find on the web or videos, or show him your new underwear or something sexy, and flirt by video and by text messages, or by microphone if you feel too shy to talk with video too, this will keep him also interested and will want to see you more, another thing is that many times men wants to makes us happy in the relationship, if you are always grumpy , bad tempered, criticising everything and never smiling at anything he does or says to try to make you happy he can also feel like he is not good enough for you, like nothing that he does is enough, you have to be careful about that, even if i feel sometimes really sad about something that happened to me at work, or in class, or that i remembered something about my childhood or whatever, if my boyfriend asks me “are you happy with me?†i say to him “yes , im happy with YOUâ€, because no matter what happens outside he is there for me and he loves me, and i tell him that, i let him know he is good enough and that he is making me happy with his love, but also because he is really good to me (if you dont have a good boyfriend and he’s just a lot of drama and fightings and makes you feel bad about yourself all the time, then its different) but if you have a good boyfriend or husband, let him know that he is one of a kind and very special to you.